Takeing Custom Orders from an Indecisive Person

I started this conversation with a woman who wants a bustle jacket. It was going great until last night, she kept changing her mind about things. I really understand that its her jacket and such, but I havent been paid yet. She refuses to let me set up the listing. I am almost to the point of telling her kindly to find someone else. I have spent gas and time designing it and all i have gotten is headaches. I dont have time for this. I think I will tell her to find someone else, I just dont think it will be worth it in the long run.